Her plane started 13 minutes ago. It will take her to Spain, where she will
be an au pair, taking care of children.
She will stay there for 11 months. It's basically the same as breaking
up, I'd say.
this is her
Other than that... I've been a lazy bum for the last two months, doing
absolutely nothing.
I finished school and am now waiting for the letter from university that
says 'yes haze, of course we want you to study here'.
It will be here on the 27th or so.
Now, I'm not all whiny and emo about all this but still...
Letting your girl go away for what seems like forever isnt't the
easiest thing in the world.
So get out your fun little browser games, those strage videos on youtube or
maybe even some nasty, gory pics.
Anything that will keep me from thinking.
Thanks, b0ggers and b0gettes.
posted by haze on Sunday 3rd September 2006, 05:05:20
Well if you're expecting this will be a break-up you should actually
break-up in case one of you, or both of you, have differing expectations
about what can go on while she's on leave.
But it's not about being "right"
it's about you not feeling screwed when she has
the same idea about her own "freedoms" in
Spain. That way neither side feels betrayed or on the
flip-side, obligated to be true.
yup, spain is a relation killer. my girlfriend broke up with me when she
was in spain and most of the relations of the people she knew there went
down the drain, too.
but on the other hand, your girl is going there for au pair and i guess
thats not as "dangerous" as being at the universtity with dozens
of other exchange students who are all completely freaking out.
my girlfriend...
